I was googling on organizational conflict (for my OB) when i found this article, and i just had to post it:
A few years ago, I spoke to a group of high-schoolers about the Jewish idea of love.
"Someone define love," I said.
No response.
"Doesn't anyone want to try?" I asked.
Still no response.
"Tell you what: I'll define it, and you raise your hands if you agree. Okay?"
Nods.
"Okay. Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person."
Every hand went up. And I thought, Oy.
This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it.
"Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness."
Love comes in different forms. Erotic love Platonic love Familial love Puppy love Romantic love Unrequited love
which catergory does your love falls under?
Heck, i just realized i've been listening to the SAME song for the past 9 hours.